When you love someone, you love them because they make you feel that you can be yourself, that you dont have to act and be someone else because the way you are is already enough for them and its their reason for ever loving you and keeping you in their hearts. They make you feel safe that they will never slip away from your arms to the arms of others even when all seems to crumble down to the earth and with all your mistakes in life, they will be there to be by your side facing walls and barriers in life together as one. They make you feel that life is just a mere ease flow of water down a rough stream through rocks and pebbles, hills and mountains, rivers and seas. With smiles and comfort, advises and laughters, ears given to listen and hearts to understand is what makes that one person special to another. A heart given in to the worst part of a human heart is what melts, changed and mold it from a person so cold, so hard, so evil into someone other people could never thought that one person could become. And to realise that all it takes, is just a heart given to love and give warmth for the comfort of the icy heart.
When a love is given to that one single person which is special to his/her life, it is given whole and never to be taken lightly. It is given unconditionally and without a doubt it would be wasted. It is given to let down everything else in the past and put you first, it is given as a sign that its time to change from all childish fun and temptations in life for the sake of maturity, devotion and responsibility. People in love would go to the ends of the earth for the other special person, this maybe a cliche line to say, but have you ever been in love, so deeply in love that all you wanna do give up everything and be with that person the whole day, just lie in bed and talk about the future, forgetting about everything else thats been thrown to you by life in the worse way you could ever think of. Make memory of everything you love to do alone, with that single person so that he or she would one day know that no one else have done it with you because you want them to know how special they are to you in your life.
Some people these generation failed to see spouses as a person to love and care for, to improve ones self and to cherish one another, but instead, it stands as a thophy, a status and pride, it stands as a road for financial solution, for one self requirement of materials and satisfaction in life, it serves as a protection from mistakes and sole purpose for goals in life. Purchased happiness and glory is what we fail to see that it wont last for life, we kept searching for it, it will always be an urge to have and to need, it is our drug and our greed in life, it will cloud our vision of what is real in life not realising it is fantasy guided by wealth, pride and glory. It takes away reality by lifting us up high into the sky not realising what is really happening below us that is reality. From there we plant seeds of ego, selfishness, greed, rank and respect from others into ourselves. A trophy doesnt last long in another persons mind as there are many winning thophies out there ready to be won over, it all depends on what happens, what you do and what you say after you win the trophy. You could be all into getting it in the first place, training hard and focusing on it, but after you win it, it is kept in a shelf on the corner of your hall for show and you're out chasing after the next trophy in line.
