In life we fall, we strive harder, we work harder, we gave up our days and nights to sleepless workload given by our bosses just to put food on the table for our family or just ourselves. Some also go through heart wrecking moments that cannot be avoided, like those who have given up everything in life to achieve something that they really want in life, and after all that hard work it was taken away, or, it might have been given to you, but everything came crashing down because of external issues that doesnt even involve you or whatever you are doing or did in the past. Some people result to taking away their own life even before it was time, leaving behind loves ones. Now, isnt it the same situation as what you went through? your loved ones have hope to see you again no matter what the cost, same as you hoping to achieve what you want without any cost, but then you took your own life and your love ones couldnt see you again, same as someone took your hardwork away and you are not able to see it anymore.
We as humans sometimes fail to see those who really loved us, those who really needed us, and those who really cared for us. We neglect every happiness that was given to us freely, we become selfish and heartless, cold and blind to those out there. Quoting a phrase, "When one door closes, another opens" or "everything happens for a reason", is what i feel people should apply to their life. Have it ever occur to you that things didnt go your way because its not meant for you in a long term or things will not end well for you if you follow this path? some might believe that, some may not.
Let's take it this way, what if one day, you left home, the moment you step out of your house you accidentally stepped on a dog poop, you go back in the house to change your shoe, then your left home and missed the first bus which made you wait for the next, while waiting, you saw an old lady wanting to cross the road with her groceries in the hand, you then stood up, walk across and gave her a hand, the next bus came, there you are waiting in line, and the person infront of you doesnt have a change to pay the ticket, and you offer change, on the bus you met this girl who was sitting at the corner alone with eyes red as if she was crying before she board the bus, so you offer her a tissue and gave her smile, she smiled back, you reached the office and was scolded by your boss for being late, then you end up being moody and angry the whole day.
Not knowing, scolding is just a small thing, its not that you got fired or cost a million dollar in loss to your company, but because you were late, you made 3 stranger's day, if you didnt accidentally stepped on the dog's poop and you would have catch the first bus, the old lady might have been crossing the road alone with her heavy grocery bags, the person out of change might have missed the opportunity of his life time for a job that could save he and his family's future, the girl who was sitting alone might have had a bad break up or received a bad news and was on her way to commit suicide. But because of you, you gave hope, you gave life and you put a smile on another's face. Because of you, people who have given up on life thinking that they are alone and no one is with them, they now know they are not alone and there are people out there who still cares for them.
Now, for a change of perspection, good things on your side and it's just this simple, you have been suffering with this company for years, struggling and working hard but you never got a raise, never got promoted and never appreciated, then one day, you got fired. You are left with nothing, thinking that this is it, this is the end of your life because everything that you have worked for, has now gone to waste and you are done with starting all over again from scratch, you give up on life. At this moment now, take the quotes i said just now and put it into the situation, change the mindset, you didnt give up, you never gave up, you take it as an opportunity to find a better job, you went on searching for weeks and months for a job that would take you in, one day you received a call from this company saying they would like to interview you. The day comes, you walked in the office and greeted the boss and here is where my topic comes into place. Remember the guy that you gave change too for the bus fare, it seems that it really was the opportunity of his life that he was rushing to board the bus, and he is where he is now because of one simple action you did and he never forget the person that gave a nickle for the bus fare that changed his life around, you were hired, as years pass by, you became one of his manager because of the skills you learn by striving and doing allot of research working with the past company, putting it into this company and making it grow, and also because of his trust towards your generosity for people that really needed help and friendship that both of you have developed easily because he feels grateful to you, and from there you gave hope to others in need.
Life is a continuous process of learning, there is never a time where you just stop learning because you already known enough, it is forever teaching, with ups and downs, we learn to improve, to grow strong, to be more matured, to be skillfull and learn new things. Sometimes failures doesnt mean the end of your life, it just means it is the end of your time to learn that specific skill and its time for you to move on and learn new things which you will need for that one specific job that is waiting for you at the end of your career road or life in the future.